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Friend or family member won't repay a loan

Personal loan not repaid

Money lent to friends or family can be hard to recover. Clear records that it was a loan, not a gift, matter most.

Common evidence

  • Any written agreement, note, or IOU
  • Bank transfers or payment-app records
  • Texts or emails mentioning repayment
  • Partial repayments received

Potential next steps

  1. Write a timeline of the loan and any repayments.
  2. Ask for repayment in writing with a reasonable deadline.
  3. Consider whether a payment plan would work.
  4. Check your state's deadline for this type of claim.

Limitations to check

  • Verbal-agreement deadlines are often shorter than written ones.
  • Small-claims dollar limits, deadlines, and filing rules differ by state and court. Confirm them with your official court source.
  • Some contracts require arbitration or another process first. Read your agreement before filing.
  • Sueify provides general information and organization tools, not legal advice.

FAQs

There's no written agreement. Can I still ask?

Possibly. Messages and transfers can help show the loan existed. Courts decide what evidence is enough.